· You have to make it clear to your child that he is an important person, i.e. to treat him well. The best example for this is the story of the spilled milk. Suppose you invite a very important person to dinner, and during the meal, he spills a cup of milk. How would you respond to this ? Of course, you would say,"Don't worry. Such incidents always happen. Wait a moment, let me dry it, let me clean the place." However, if your child spills a cup of milk in the absence of that guest, you would surely assume a completely different approach, wouldn't you? However, you should act the same way as you would act with the important guest.

　　2- Teach your children how to accept their weak points in the same way that they accept their strong points. Children who lack self-confidence only see their points of weakness. Thus, to focus only on their deficiencies makes them close their eyes to the positive aspects of their characters.

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