Helping yourself help others
SALMA SANWARI Most Muslim women understand the meaning of the Hollywood-popularized saying, “Pay it forward,” doing kindness to others in need because someone did good to you when you were in straits. Long before Benjamin Franklin explained the concept to Benjamin Webb in an April 1784 letter, apparently having given... More
Jan 22, 2025
A Moment of Truth
This is an excerpt from a conversation with one particular Muslim sister, but it could be a conversation with any of the numerous Muslim sisters who think along similar lines. We need a moment of truthfulness, not with ourselves, but with Allah The Almighty, Who is the Provider, Creator, The... More
Jan 22, 2025
Our Highly Economical Home - I
The economics of a Muslim home are based upon a group of values and foundations that distinguish it from any other home; and these are: * Observance of the advice of the Messenger, , to not look longingly at those that are greater than us in provisions, for he, ,... More
Jan 22, 2025
Our Highly Economical Home - II
Methods to Economize on Electrical Appliances: Allah The Exalted has bestowed knowledge upon humans and as a result of this knowledge there are modern inventions that have made chores easier, resulting in greatly reducing human exertion, thereby freeing up time for other things. Therefore, electrical appliances should be maintained and... More
Jan 22, 2025
Preservation of Lineage and Progeny
A woman said, "A few months after my marriage, I got pregnant by the Bounty of Allah. Now, I am waiting for my first baby, fully looking forward to seeing and embracing it and to the new life with my children." Another woman said, "Thirteen years after marriage – and... More
Jan 22, 2025
A Message to the Woman Who Does not Adhere to the Hijab
Tabarruj means impermissible exposure of women's adornment and beauty before non-Mahram (marriageable) men. This applies to exposure of jewels, arms, legs, chest, neck, face, and so on. Shaykh Abu Al-A‘la Al-Mawdoodi said: Tabarruj for women means: Exposure of the beauty of the face and body before non-Mahram men. Exposure... More
Jan 22, 2025
Contemplation and Consideration – Qualities of the Virtuous - I
Deliberation most certainly leads to knowledge, which, in turn, results in action. Hence, if people ponder the magnificence of Allah The Almighty, they will surely refrain from His disobedience. Moreover, contemplation is a mirror that reflects one’s good and evil deeds. It is one of the best acts of worship,... More
Jan 22, 2025
Contemplation and Consideration – Qualities of the Virtuous - II
After knowing the value of contemplation and the verses, many Hadeeth and sayings regarding it, it is worthy of us to pause and ponder our identity, creation and destiny; and, whether we are to live forever or die, and if we are to pass away, then where would we go:... More
Jan 22, 2025
My problem is forgetfulness
Raawiyah Mustafa from Cairo asks, "I used to have a normal memory, but recently have begun to forget things. When I enter my room for something, I remain inside it for several minutes until I remember why I entered. I keep standing in front of the refrigerator, uselessly trying to... More
Jan 22, 2025