Compatibility between Spouses – I
What does it mean? Compatibility amounts to equality and similarity. In a Hadeeth (Prophetic narration), the Prophet, , said: "Muslims are equal in their inviolability of life." [Abu Daawood] Compatibility in marriage means equality and closeness between the spouses in terms of religiosity and morality, as well as social... More
Dec 4, 2024
Compatibility between Spouses - II
What does it mean? Islam did not stipulate freedom as a condition for the validity of marriage, as evident from the following instances of marriage: · Abu Huthayfah, may Allah be pleased with him, gave his niece Hind bint Al-Waleed ibn ‘Utbah ibn Rabee‘ah, may Allah be pleased with her,... More
Dec 4, 2024
Decisiveness regarding violating the Sharee‘ah
Islam came to address the entire world and this means that it is open to everyone to embrace. Allah The Almighty Says (what means): {And We have not sent you, [O Muhammad], except as a mercy to the worlds.} [Quran 21:107] As a result of that openness, which is characteristic... More
Dec 4, 2024
Relating a Story can Change a Child’s Behavior - I
A mother said, "I have a friend who is married and has two children, aged five and six. On one occasion when I visited them, she asked her children not to fiddle with the alarm clock that belonged to their father. However, the children did not pay attention to what... More
Dec 4, 2024
Relating a Story can Change a Child’s Behavior - II
Islam realizes the natural inclination toward stories, due to their magical effect on the hearts, and thus, endorses listening to them as a method of upbringing and rectifying. [Awlaaduna Akbaaduna] Stories attract the children in their early years and gain their preference over other types of entertainment, because they leave... More
Dec 4, 2024
Laughter and Entertainment in the Muslim Home
A Muslim home is not devoid of jokes and good cheer even though it is a house of constant and serious religious efforts. The Prophet, , is our example in this, for he was always cheerful and smiling. Abu 'Umaamah, may Allah be pleased with him, reported that the Prophet,... More
Dec 4, 2024
Self-Control is the Way to Happiness
A person in this worldly life lives in a state of ongoing struggle against visible and unseen enemies, and though some enemies are unseen, they may be more destructive than the visible ones. Therefore, one should always be alert and cautious. A person’s own self is the most hostile enemy... More
Dec 4, 2024
Rulings on Interaction With Marriageable Men - I
· {And when you ask [his wives] for something, ask them from behind a partition. That is purer for your hearts and their hearts.} [Quran 33:53] If a person claims that this ruling is exclusive to the wives of the Prophet, , we would say: purity of the heart is... More
Dec 4, 2024
Tenth Principle: The Obligation of Ghayrah (protective jealousy) over Mahrams and All Female Believers
Ghayrah is a spiritual barrier that protects Hijab and averts Tabarruj (exposure of beauty), Sufoor (exposure of the face) and free mixing. Such jealousy is the spiritual force placed by Allah The Almighty within the slave in order to protect His sanctities, his own honor, and chastity from every criminal... More
Dec 4, 2024